Butternut Squash!

We’re at 29 weeks, and baby O is the size of a butternut squash. He weighs around 2.5 pounds. He is over 15 inches long. His head is growing to make room for his growing brain, and his muscles and lungs continue to get stronger.

Unfortunately for me, I am still sick, and now about to get some antibiotics. I’m laying low for now, but I have a lot to do!

I was supposed to go in for a check up tomorrow, but since I’m so sick, he asked me to come in Friday instead so he can make sure I’m getting better on the antibiotics. So no news for now. Josh and I are trying to decide whether or not to have a 3D ultrasound, and if we do, I’m sure I’ll have pictures to post!

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What authors are you turned off by?

As an English Lit major, I have read a lot of authors and genres. Of course, as a human being, I have my preferences, but generally I’m just a fan of books. Rarely will you hear me decry anything I’ve read. I might say “it’s not for me” but you won’t hear me say “that book was bad” very often, if ever. Books, like music, are all about style, opinion, and preference. I always say that any book that gets you to read has been successful, because I believe so highly in reading. Even things that people expect me to label “crap” are great with me if they encourage you to read them! I will typically read anything and rarely do I dislike it. I’m along for the ride, and that works for me. Some things are easier to read than others. Take, for example, the Twilight series. I wouldn’t give Stephanie Meyer free reign to write my biography, but the books were entertaining and fast-paced. More importantly, I feel like she made reading “cool.” People wanted to go to bookstores! (remember what those were?) Similarly, J.K. Rowling, who I think is a wonderful writer, got children and adults rushing into  bookstores and lining up at midnight for new releases, and could actually get readers to get through over 500 pages in one book.

Even books that I didn’t enjoy, or wouldn’t read twice, I can typically see the merit in, or understand why others want to read them. There were a few things I hated in high school and had to read again in college, which I gained appreciation for, or even loved, the second time. I think we’re not always ready for the things that are assigned in high school, and yet I know why they are. I think it’s important for us as human beings to have read the classics, like Shakespeare, but I understand if high school were not the right time. Also, the teacher you have when you are exposed to Shakespeare makes a HUGE difference. I think that if I had taught Shakespeare, you would all love him. He is wonderful, and so funny and smart. By my senior year of high school, I loved Shakespeare. I loved to read it out loud (probably the only way it should be read) because the rhythm is so calming and beautiful. That being said, I really hated Romeo and Juliet when I read it freshman year. It’s still not my favorite story, but it’s much more beautiful than I had given it credit for. I think if I had had a teacher with a passion for literature, it would have been so different. In college, I took one semester class in which all we read was Shakespeare and it was all fabulous. Another book I read in high school and hated was The Awakening, by Kate Chopin. In college, I read it again and it changed my life. So quietly powerful.

So tell me…what books or authors were you initially turned off by? Would you ever try them again?

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Banned Books Week!

I will be celebrating Banned Books Week, as I always do, by being outraged over book banning! Let’s talk.

 

Banned Books Week, sponsored by the American Library Association, takes place from September 24 to October 11 this year. Here is their link so that you can read more about it. Basically, the ALA sets up BBW to increase public awareness of the implications of banning or restricting books, as well as to encourage reading (which I always support!). I am not going to suggest to you that YOU, personally, should read every book on the list. As always in life, some of them are going to be concerning topics that are unsavory to you. This, my friends, is not the issue. I think I have discussed on this blog before that a book will not intentionally offend you. If it begins to, or if you happen to already know the book will offend you, I recommend you do not open the cover (or close it, if need be). Books do not jump at you and force you to read them. You can’t accidentally be traumatized by a book the way you could by pressing the wrong button on your TV remote or receiving a disgusting pop-up ad on your computer. The fact is, books exist because: 1. someone wanted to write it 2. a publishing company decided that someone would want to read it. That person may not be you. This is the case with books like those about puberty, which are banned as obscene. They typically contain anatomically-correct drawings of the human body. Perhaps you don’t need to see this book, but maybe someone does.


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The real issue is that dear, amazing, masterpiece classics are banned all the time from schools, libraries, book clubs, and cities/towns/counties. They are also challenged in prisons, but not nearly as often as in schools and public libraries. They are most often challenged by parents, in many cases I believe that the parents have not read the book in question. I watched a documentary on the challenging of Huckleberry Finn in college, and the two mothers in this town that were removing children from a classroom due to the discussion of this book had not read the book. They only knew it contained the “N” word. Had they read it, they would have gotten on their knees and thanked Mark Twain for expressing the inhumanities of racial prejudice. But they didn’t. Don’t judge a book by its cover, ladies.

 

One example: number ten in the top ten banned books from 2010 was Twilight by Stephanie Meyer. The same book that has remained a bestseller and cult favorite for years, and has now been made into a movie. Why ban this book? “Religious viewpoint and violence.” ???????

 

I am going to present the list of most-often-challenged classics, with my annotations. I changed the number red if I had not read it, in which case I have no comment. The reasons for banning/challenging can be found here.

 

1. The Great Gatsby, by F. Scott Fitzgerald [A must-read for all people, but especially Americans.]
2. The Catcher in the Rye, by J.D. Salinger [I believe this is banned because Salinger uses a four-letter word that is now allowed on non-cable television]
3. The Grapes of Wrath, by John Steinbeck  [Another must-read for all Americans. THIS IS OUR HISTORY, PEOPLE! And you don’t dare mess with Steinbeck to me!]
4. To Kill a Mockingbird, by Harper Lee [Another must-read and American history is the objection to this book. The “N” word is used, but the point, THE POINT is made so well that objectors don’t realize you’re on the same team as Ms. Lee]
5. The Color Purple, by Alice Walker [If you haven’t read this, run out and do it now. It’s beautiful. Same reasons as Mockingbird.]
6. Ulysses, by James Joyce 
7. Beloved, by Toni Morrison 
8. The Lord of the Flies, by William Golding [Banned for representing human nature as it is. Sorry, folks – we are animals]
9. 1984, by George Orwell [Harsh realities of life – I feel that this novel has become more prescient since 1984!]

11. Lolita, by Vladmir Nabokov 
12. Of Mice and Men, by John Steinbeck [Not even my favorite of Steinbeck’s books and still marvelous – it was challenged, hilariously, by the KKK. Let’s all read it for that reason alone!]

15. Catch-22, by Joseph Heller 
16. Brave New World, by Aldous Huxley 
17. Animal Farm, by George Orwell 
18. The Sun Also Rises, by Ernest Hemingway 
19. As I Lay Dying, by William Faulkner [Banned or not, I challenge anyone to read it. This is not an easy read.]
20. A Farewell to Arms, by Ernest Hemingway 

23. Their Eyes Were Watching God, by Zora Neale Hurston 
24. Invisible Man, by Ralph Ellison 
25. Song of Solomon, by Toni Morrison 
26. Gone with the Wind, by Margaret Mitchell 
27. Native Son, by Richard Wright 
28. One Flew Over the Cuckoo’s Nest, by Ken Kesey 
29. Slaughterhouse-Five, by Kurt Vonnegut 
30. For Whom the Bell Tolls, by Ernest Hemingway 

33. The Call of the Wild, by Jack London 

36. Go Tell it on the Mountain, by James Baldwin 

38. All the King’s Men, by Robert Penn Warren 

40. The Lord of the Rings, by J.R.R. Tolkien 

45. The Jungle, by Upton Sinclair 

48. Lady Chatterley’s Lover, by D.H. Lawrence 
49. A Clockwork Orange, by Anthony Burgess [Again – just TRY to read this]
50. The Awakening, by Kate Chopin [I read this in high school and was NOT ready for it. When I read it again in college it literally changed my life.]

53. In Cold Blood, by Truman Capote [As this is an account of a true story, I’d say well, life is scary. This book is scary, so don’t read it if you don’t want to. Also, don’t read the news accounts of the murders in this book. But don’t blame Capote.]

55. The Satanic Verses, by Salman Rushdie 

57. Sophie’s Choice, by William Styron 

64. Sons and Lovers, by D.H. Lawrence 

66. Cat’s Cradle, by Kurt Vonnegut 
67. A Separate Peace, by John Knowles [I don’t recall this being anything but wonderful]

73. Naked Lunch, by William S. Burroughs 
74. Brideshead Revisited, by Evelyn Waugh 
75. Women in Love, by D.H. Lawrence 

80. The Naked and the Dead, by Norman Mailer 

84. Tropic of Cancer, by Henry Miller 

88. An American Tragedy, by Theodore Dreiser 

97. Rabbit, Run, by John Updike 

 

I understand the desire to protect children from things too mature for them. But please remember this: censorship cannot take the place of involved parenting.

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So sick

Ugh, I’m sick 😦

I have been a little worried in the back of my mind this entire pregnancy about what it would be like if I got sick while pregnant. Of course I can’t take any medication to make myself feel better, but it’s scary as well to worry about whether or not I have a fever and if that will affect me or the baby negatively…but in the meantime, after getting very little sleep last night and just feeling really awful, I am pretty much miserable. BOOOO HOOOO.

So I’m going to be laying in bed feeling sorry for myself…

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Oh thank you, DMV

If you know Linda, she probably already warned you about this…but the DMV has a new “policy” (which henceforth will be referred to as a scam) in which they are not sending registration renewal notices. This is especially problematic if it’s your year to also get a smog check (try doing that in one day with the clock ticking!).

How do you know to pay it then? How do you know how much it is? Well, you don’t.  You can now renew your registration online, so I suggest that you stop what you are doing RIGHT NOW and check your month sticker on your license plate, then come back in to your computer and add a reminder that will pop up 30 days before that month begins and remind you to go online and pay it.

As a delightful sidenote, in addition to “saving money by not sending mail” the DMV also increased the penalty amounts on expired registration by approximately 10,000%*. I’m not a mathematician, but that seems quite exorbitant, doesn’t it? It’s 60% of your registration cost plus $30 EACH for the DMV and CHP (Why CHP?) for the first 30 days that you are deficient, and skyrockets after that. They are giving a sneaky 30-day grace period to account for the sudden change in policies, which didn’t help me as I don’t CONSTANTLY LOOK AT THE BACK OF MY CAR AND NOTICE MY STICKER IS OLD. Thankfully, Linda noticed, and I proceeded directly to the DMV to pay none less than ONE HUNDRED DOLLARS in late fees. $100?!?!?!?!

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I did try to argue with them, but they claim to have sent me 4 reminder letters, despite the fact that the website claims that their registration renewal policies changed on July 1, and my registration was due in July. Also, we did receive a renewal notice for the Harley, which we paid in July. So figure that out. Anyway, I feel like I pretty much got worked over by a system that set me up to fail and then collected when I did as expected. So, California DMV, I want you to know that I hate you. Everyone hates you. Now we all hate you a little more. [Okay, I feel better now.]

So learn from my mistakes, and make yourself a reminder.

 

*Actual figures may vary.

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What 28 weeks looks like (for me)

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Adventures in Cooking

I have been so happy to have a kitchen again, and I’ve been cooking up a storm. I thought I’d post about some of the dinners in case you’re wondering what to make tonight!

A few good dishes:

Autumn salad:

Braeburn apples, Bartlett pears, red grapes, sharp cheddar, and a dressing of reduced apple juice, apple cider vinegar, olive oil and pepper.
I made this salad alongside chicken and dumplings, which I didn’t photograph, but was very good.

Chicken and Dumplings (recipe from my mom)

Boil a whole chicken (or pieces if you prefer) until chicken is cooked in a large stockpot with chopped celery, carrot, and onion. Also add 2 bay leaves, 8+ cloves of garlic. Remove chicken (keep cooking liquid!), cool, and shred. At this point, you can strain the broth in your stockpot or you can eat everything but the bay leaves. If you remove the carrots etc. you can now throw in frozen mixed vegetables now. To thicken, I made a roux with about 1/4 cup milk and stirred it into the broth. You can also just add Wondra. Return shredded chicken to the broth and return to a simmer. Mix up a batch of Bisquick mix and place blobs of it on the surface. It will bubble and cook (but remain gooey). Sprinkle with freshly ground black pepper into individual bowls. Serve!

For dessert, we had cinnamon sugar pretzels from Sandra Lee Semi-Homemade Cooking Made Light. They are a lighter take on a Cinnabon-style pretzel, using Brigford frozen bread dough, which is formed, boiled, then brushed with honey and baked. Once browned they are brushed with a cinnamon-powdered sugar glaze.

This is a pretty standard caprese salad, but I made a balsamic reduction sauce.

Balsamic Reduction Sauce:

Bring 2 cups of balsamic vinegar and 1/8 cup brown sugar to a low, rolling boil. Cook until reduced at least in half. You can tell it is thickening by sticking a spoon into the sauce to see how slowly it drips. The process will take at least 30 minutes. Don’t try to cook it with a higher heat; it will burn. Once finished, it’s thick and syrupy like chocolate fudge sauce. You can place it in a plastic squeeze bottle if you have one! I drizzled with a spoon.

Caprese Salad

Slice tomatoes and fresh mozzarella and arrange on plate. Chiffonade* basil and sprinkle over the top. Drizzle with balsamic vinegar and olive oil (or reduction sauce), freshly ground pepper, and sea salt.

*Chiffonade: roll the leaves lengthwise and slice them from one rolled end to the other to create thin strips.

Quick tomato cream sauce:

Start with our friend, the roux. Add 1/4 cup 1% milk, and 1/8 cup parmesan cheese. Whisk until blended. (This is basically alfredo sauce!) Combine this with store-bought marinara sauce. I also boiled some fresh English peas I found at Trader Joe’s and added them to the sauce.

I also cooked some Greek dishes on Sunday night. I didn’t photograph them, but they all turned out so well, I thought I’d provide the recipes.

I have been craving Skordalia, a Greek dip similar to hummus that I have only ever found in Greektown restaurants in Detroit. Since my dad and brother recently went there, I’ve been thinking about it. It’s a dip of russet potatoes, garlic, almonds, and vinegar pureed and served with pita bread. Mine turned out well, but did not taste the same as I remembered. The recipe was from Food Network and you can find it here.

I also made an improvised Greek rice and a standard Greek salad:

Greek Salad

Dressing:

1/4 cup vinegar

1/2 cup olive oil

1 tsp. each dried oregano, basil, and thyme (I used fresh thyme) and minced garlic

1 tsp. Greek seasoning

Salad:

Romaine lettuce, tomatoes, cucumber, pitted Kalamata olives, Feta cheese

Greek Rice

2 cups cooked white rice

2 tsp. each dried basil, oregano

2 tsp. minced fresh garlic

5 tbl. fresh lemon juice

2 tbl. olive oil

2 tsp. Greek seasoning

2 tsp. fresh thyme

Combine all ingredients and leave to sit for a few hours in the fridge for flavors to marry. Serve hot.

Next I made gyros from Cooking Light. The recipe is here. It includes a recipe for a tzatiki-like sauce, which wasn’t quite on point for me. I added fresh dill and more mint and it got much closer to what I remember.  I also recommend leaving this one in the fridge for the flavors to marry. Additionally, I shredded the red onion with a cheese grater rather than placing large slices into the sauce. It was chunky enough already! The gyros were delicious and the sauce really made it!

 

 

 

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House pictures

We’re just shy of done here! We’re missing a mantle and a couple of final tweaks. Let me just say that pictures do NOT do it justice. You just have to see it in person. Maybe I’ll post a video tour?

Oh yeah that's me with a nail gun!

The ultimate nest! Yes!

So…what do you think?

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Chinese Cabbage and Welcome to the Third Trimester!

We both have some milestones this week. Week 28: I have entered the third trimester, my friends! Baby O weighs 2 1/4 pounds and measures 14.8 inches long. That’s BIG. He has eyelashes now, his eyesight is developing, he can open and close his eyes, and can possible see light coming in. He is gaining body fat and the neurons in his brain are developing.

This week’s other milestones for me include possibly developing Restless Leg Syndrome (check!) and entering the time in which I will start to visit the doctor every 2 weeks. We’ll see…I have an appointment next Tuesday.

The other thing we need to debate and decide is whether or not to have a 3D ultrasound, so if you’ve had one, I’d love your input! The technician told me that 28-29 weeks is the ideal time as the baby is formed and looks very much like he will at birth, but isn’t yet too cramped that he’s not moving as much.

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Oh technology…

This week my beloved phone had a little meltdown. It’s not been acting very well up until this point, but I’ve been too busy to deal with it. Now the earpiece speaker stopped working and I knew it was time to do something. I took my phone and laptop to the Apple store with a genius appointment. The Apple guy said that the fact my phone has refused to sync for months (over a year) was obviously an issue. He got it to sync, but the backup process was taking forever. I sat there for 2 hours, felt like I was watching paint dry, and then I left. I left the phone connected and backing up and was without it all night.

And that’s when I realized how dependent I am. I wanted to call Josh to tell him I didn’t have a working phone. Or text…no phone. Then I went to check the traffic to see which way I should drive home…no phone. The radio was awful, I wanted to play Pandora in my car…no phone. I could see text messages coming in, but couldn’t respond. When I was bored in the Apple store, I thought “I’ll read some articles…on my…phone. Oh bummer.

By the way, the speaker problem was solved thanks to Google: I had listened to Pandora with headphones that morning, and I put the headphones back in, then took them out, and the speaker worked again. If only the phone update process could be that easy!

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