Feral cats, generators, and obnoxious dogs

It’s Wednesday night at 9:15 p.m. I am in bed, exhausted, and trying to fall asleep. (Don’t judge me for being in bed this early…I’m tired.) My next-door neighbor’s sliding glass door screeches the awful metal-on-metal sound as it opens and he lumbers out. I hear him yell to his wife, she yells back. As they are both mostly deaf, I can’t understand a word they are saying, but they are loud. He opens his creaking gate [right under our bedroom window] and starts up a loud truck. He seems to be backing the truck into his yard, next to our fence [also right under window]. He has turned a floodlight on under the roofline of his tall backyard…garage? It is tall enough to house a motorhome. The light fills our dark bedroom. Then, he starts up a generator. Or a snowblower. SERIOUSLY?! Of course I can’t see a thing with my glasses on the nightstand, so I just stare at the orange light blindly and shake my head.

It’s 4:40 a.m. and I hear the unmistakable sound of a cat screaming. Don’t hate me for saying this, but I wish it was the sound of a cat being eaten by a predator. It wasn’t. Another cat joins it. I am getting very used to this sound. They continue for about 10 minutes. It sets off the horrible chihuahua that lives behind me. He barks until 5:30.

Once the sun is up, I call animal control. They tell me that I can trap the feral cats and they will come pick them up. Out of curiosity I google the cost of buying or renting traps. I would also have to provide water (and presumably food to entice them into the traps) for these animals. I know the shelter will euthanize them, but now that they are reproducing…

I don’t believe, generally, in killing things. I know it has to be done at times, but typically I’d like to stay out of the process. I don’t think it’s my place. However, it is decidedly more cruel to allow the cats to reproduce and create feral kittens. My next-door neighbor feeds the feral cats. That is why they always mate under my window. I don’t think he intends to be cruel, but he is. Feeding them is not in their best interest. They just create more homeless pets. The responsible thing to do, if you enjoy the company of wild cats, is to trap them, bring them in to animal control for spaying, and then return them to “the wild’ and continue feeding them. But he is not. Instead, I have the option of trapping them myself? No.

 

My solution?

 

I’m thinking a bee bee gun.

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Etsy looove!

A lot of my nursery inspiration board items were from Etsy. I’ve posted about the site before, but I really think it’s awesome. In fact, I’ve added several Etsy finds to my secret (still under wraps, sorry) baby registry*. Here is the board again, with numbers and explanations:

1. Fabric – Etsy (and other places); 2. Vinyl wall decal – Etsy; 3. Receiving blanket – Etsy; 4. Art print – Etsy (I might order this because it’s so amazing); 5. Print – Etsy; 6. Cloud wall decals – Etsy (I’d like to put these on the ceiling just because they are cute, but have not ordered); 7. Dragon booties – Etsy (I have these on my registry and I hope someone loves them!); 8. Castle painting – Etsy (this is another I might buy, but I don’t think I have the wall space in there. Bummer); 9. Print – Etsy (Definitely don’t have the room now, but it’s so beautiful. It’s a boy asleep with a book open on his bed, dreaming of whales, astronauts, dragons and cowboys); 10. Vinyl decals – Amazon (these I might order, as they are small, but I need to do this last after I see how things look); 11. Painting (prints), set of three – Etsy (These I have ordered! See below)This set of three prints will be the centerpiece of the nursery. I can’t wait to see them in person.

Link to the images on Etsy.

Kids decor - Knights and Dragons art prints
Aren’t these cute?!

 

*Sorry, the registry is just not done yet. At all.

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Book review: Half Broke Horses

 

While I was in Palm Springs, I read Half Broke Horses, by Jeannette Walls.

Ms. Walls also penned The Glass Castle which is a fantastic read; I recommend it often.
This book, while not a sequel by any means (Glass Castle is the author’s autobiography) is the story of the author’s grandmother’s life. I say “story” because I’m not anywhere near certain that it contains facts, which is the case in most biographies anyway. 😉

Walls writes her grandmother’s life story with an admiration of the American Southwest and its beautiful but harsh landscape, which I loved to read about. Times are rough-and-tumble, and Lily, our heroine, is up to the challenge. At first I really loved her pluck and determination. After a while, I started to think that she really thought a bit too highly of herself, and that her stubbornness was less than endearing… One problem I knew I’d have going in is that Lily is the mother of the awful Rosemary who “raised” Jeannette (the author). In reading  The Glass Castle, you come to hate Rosemary, and while I was admiring Lily’s courage, I found myself wondering how she would someday go so wrong with her daughter. Lily (in Jeannette’s words) does try to explain her shortcomings where Rosemary is concerned, but mostly I felt it was a cop-out. That’s when I started to think that Lily was a lot of talk and less action, and her character seemed more stubborn than courageous.

Aside from my criticism of the narrator’s personality, the book is an inviting, addictive read. It’s so fascinating to get a taste of the Southwest at the end of its most interesting era. She also ventures to Chicago in the height of industrialization, and it’s so interesting to travel back with her. Ms. Walls does an incredible job of setting each scene with painstaking precision, so that you can picture it perfectly as you read the story. It’s a very American tale of rags-to-riches (and back to rags, and back to riches, perhaps) and reads easily. Not as great as Castle, but I didn’t expect the author to capture the life of a woman she hardly knew as adeptly as her own, and I’m fine with that.

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A (large) mango

Baby O is 23 weeks now, and the size of a large mango. That is how it was described on BabyCenter, not my opinion on the relative sizes of mangoes, of course.

 

Over 11 inches long and over 1 lb. in weight, he can hear loud noises, like  vacuum or dog barking, and will get used to familiar loud noises before he is even born! I wonder if he’ll be used to the sound of my neighbor’s dog barking. I won’t. I digress…

 

His sense of movement is well-developed, and blood vessels in the lungs are preparing themselves for breathing.

 

Here is a link to this week on Babycenter.

 

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Nursery Painting

I promised a picture of the painting I bought for the nursery at the Sawdust Festival, but I should have promised a GOOD picture. Instead, we have this:

Well, whatever, you get the picture. 🙂

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Nursery Project

This might be my first official nursery project!

 

I found these adorable wooden castles at Michael’s (they are birdhouses, actually):

 

I got two, and thought I’d make bookends of them.

 

Saturday morning I woke up at 4, inexplicably, and when I realized I wasn’t going to be able to sleep, I started painting one.

 

Here’s how I did:

 

 

 

 

 

So I think I will have J place them on heavy pieces of wood so that they will hold books, or I’ll attach them to bookends somehow, but in the meantime, I like it! Now I just need to decide how to paint the other one so it’s a little different…

 

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Welcome!!

Welcome to the new blog.

I wanted something simple (and easier to navigate to) and I was craving more functionality, so I’ve made a big move and I hope you will enjoy it!

Also, I’ve really been working on blogging more often, with more dynamic content. I hope you’ve been enjoying it if you were previously a reader of East of Eden. I have a LOT to share with you, dear readers!

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The kitchen!!!!

This is such an exciting post! The kitchen looks so different empty and OMG do I love…well you’ll see.
Wonderful helpers: my dad, J’s dad, and friend Chris.

J begins to cut away the window that will connect the kitchen and living room…at long last! I’m so excited.
O M G
Seriously tell me that doesn’t already look amazing! And huge! It’s about 8′ wide.
From the living room…

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Macaroni and Cheese

I am always encouraging people to try making mac and cheese from scratch; it’s really easy, and employing the methods of making it (like making a roux) are really good and versatile skills to have as a home cook. For example, you will now know how to make alfredo (or any other cream sauce) as well as nacho cheese sauce, which I made a while back [click here for the recipe].

Anyhow, I figured I should post on how to make it once and for all!

Two things you should know going into this post:
1. I made this on Sunday night before we ripped out the kitchen, and most of my kitchen utensils and food items were already packed. I didn’t buy anything special for it; I only used what I had (that’s how great this recipe is!) I also didn’t want to turn on the oven, meaning I never baked this, and it was still delicious!
2. I have never made this the same way twice; I’ll try to point out when you can get creative in the recipe.

I’m going to start you with a printable basic recipe that is a good one, from my idol Martha Stewart:
Martha Stewart’s Macaroni and Cheese

 Make roux:
1. melt butter

 2. Your first chance to be creative: you can saute finely chopped onions in the butter, garlic, or mustard powder. I chose garlic. Make sure to cook it for a very short amount of time. In fact, I think Gordon Ramsey would scream at me for the brown-ness of the butter in this pan…but it’s the stove! Not me!

3. Add flour (you’re getting measurements from the recipe, no? I didn’t measure anything, but you should if this is your first time. Also, I’m sure no one cares, but I use whole wheat white flour in ALL of my cooking, in case you were interested.

3. Add your milk and/or cream. Sometimes I use heavy cream and milk, sometimes just heavy cream or half and half, and at home, just 1 or 2% milk. This is the part of the roux that freaks people out. The flour is clumpy and looks weird, but just whisk it!

4. Ignore the brownish tint – once the flour is whisked into the milk it will make a nice, thick sauce base: this is the roux. Allow it to bubble slowly and thicken before adding your cheese.
Now add cheese!
I used a cheddar-monterey blend and mozzarella, because that’s what I had. I typically use anything like extra sharp cheddar, white cheddar (but always some orange for color purposes), gruyere, havarti, blue, gorgonzola…anything that looks good. My favorite was a wood-apple-smoked gruyere I found once.
This is your other creative time: you can add Worcestershire sauce (unless I’m coming over for dinner: I hate it) dry mustard powder (if you haven’t already), Dijon mustard, cayenne pepper, black pepper, etc.

Mmm this is making me hungry!

 You can, of course, stir add-ins if you like them. Suggestions: chicken, bacon/ham, peas…

Typically, I’d add bread crumbs (Martha advocates making them yourself, and I’ll admit: they are great! Although I typically will use pre-made from Trader Joe’s. Italian breadcrumbs are also delicious. You can then add more cheese (this is where I’d throw in a strong cheese like gruyere and another “hard” cheese; maybe parmesan or romano.) You can drizzle 1 tsp. of olive oil over the crumbs for moisture, and I will recommend garlic olive oil or even truffle oil if you have it!

Bon appetit!

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Let’s get ready to remodel!!!!!!!!!!!

I hope the song from “Let’s Get Ready to Rumble” is in your head right now! Here are some images from the last days of the old kitchen:

One empty cabinet!

Fridge sans my photos and cards…

The pantry is packed up–thanks to my mom and my grandma for their help!. This small pantry held a LOT of stuff!

Items stacked in baby’s room and ready to be boxed (once I buy boxes and tape–don’t worry I did that on Sunday!)

This wall will not be whole when you see it next…

Mostly packed and put away, we are ready to demo. It was bittersweet taking these pictures this morning knowing I’d never see this kitchen again (as I’ll be at work when J starts demo)

I won’t miss this cooktop. It sucks. 🙂

Really won’t miss this oven. It sucks more!

All in all, there are really not any elements I will miss, so I’m not saying I’m sad to see it go. It’s just that there are a lot of things changing around here these days and it’s getting overwhelming!! Especially when I come home and, as usual, J is pounding away and things are different. That’s a little hard to take. But I promise you I won’t miss that HORRIBLE, UGLY linoleum at all! It was its time to go. Also, I want to tell you all that your kitchen holds like 75% of the “stuff” in your house and really isn’t fun to pack up! My mom was making fun of me for complaining about it (“I just hate getting a new kitchen! Waaa waa waa!”) and I don’t mean to complain, but two solid days of packing just sent me back to last September, and it doesn’t seem that long ago that I packed and unpacked this same stuff! It takes up both of our bedrooms just to store it in boxes and  bags!!

On ward to our latest adventure…I am really excited!

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