On empathy

Empathy

em·pa·thy noun \ˈem-pə-thē\
: the feeling that you understand and share another person’s experiences and emotions : the ability to share someone else’s feelings

Full Definition of EMPATHY

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: the imaginative projection of a subjective state into an object so that the object appears to be infused with it
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: the action of understanding, being aware of, being sensitive to, and vicariously experiencing the feelings, thoughts, and experience of another of either the past or present without having the feelings, thoughts, and experience fully communicated in an objectively explicit manner; also : the capacity for this.

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Sympathy

sym·pa·thy noun \ˈsim-pə-thē\
: the feeling that you care about and are sorry about someone else’s trouble, grief, misfortune, etc. : a sympathetic feeling

: a feeling of support for something

: a state in which different people share the same interests, opinions, goals, etc.
plural sym·pa·thies

Full Definition of SYMPATHY

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a : an affinity, association, or relationship between persons or things wherein whatever affects one similarly affects the other
b : mutual or parallel susceptibility or a condition brought about by it
c : unity or harmony in action or effect
2
a : inclination to think or feel alike : emotional or intellectual accord
b : feeling of loyalty : tendency to favor or support
3
a : the act or capacity of entering into or sharing the feelings or interests of another
b : the feeling or mental state brought about by such sensitivity
4
: the correlation existing between bodies capable of communicating their vibrational energy to one another through some medium.

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I think empathy and sympathy are often confused for one another. Empathetic people understand others very well; consequently they are often the least sympathetic BECAUSE they understand others so well.

Food for thought!

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Let’s revisit: post on santification

This is a post I have been referring back to in my time of sadness and heartache:
How to get through: Sanctification | https://joshandkorey.com/2013/09/16/how-to-get-through-sanctification/

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Morning walk attire

Jacob insisted on wearing the hat and mittens. 🙂

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The nursery becomes a busy toddler room

Jacob’s room has transformed to meet his needs (playing, sleeping, and hiding hehe). The baby furniture is safely packed away for possible future use, and Jacob’s room is all about fun now.
Here is a link to pictures of the nursery so you can be reminded of what it looked like:
FINALLY – The Nursery | https://joshandkorey.com/2011/10/21/2636/

He has his toddler bed with the beautiful quilt from my friend Emily and her mom, Patti (hi!) with his Build-a-bear monkey that has Josh’s and my voice in it telling him we love him. He has tons of books, most of which I’ve tried to make accessible for him since he loves them. He has a little table and chair covered in recycled plan paper so he can color or sticker to his heart’s content. He can hide in his castle tent. Josh and Jacob made the rack (like a coat tree) this weekend that is holding his fun boy dress-up clothes (construction vest and tool belt, pirate hat, glasses, fedora, fireman suit…)

And here are some of his “new” room!

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Diaper drawer

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I really love cloth diapering. I love avoiding the massive piles of trash that disposables would create. I love seeing a fluffy bum. I love not spending tons of money on diapers!
Sometimes I get annoyed. It’s a lot of work, and if you fall behind you’re in trouble. But when the diapers are prepped and put away, I feel great about choosing to reuse.

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Misty morning

This weird fog has been rolling in mid-morning, but you can already tell the day will be warm.
Winter? Did you get lost on the way here?

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Day with Miki

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The play kitchen

I’m a little bit obsessed with it. Jacob is too. 🙂

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Have tools, will travel. (Have not pants)

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I yuv you mama

http://youtu.be/Xx9nOXy1qYQ

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